"Spitting On The Bride" and 9 other bizarre wedding rituals

Love may be universal, but the ways people celebrate it couldn’t be more different. Some couples toast with champagne and dance under candlelight, while others begin their journey with leftovers, arrows, or even a month's worth of tears. Across the globe—from Chinese villages to remote Pacific islands—wedding rituals range from deeply symbolic to downright strange. Here are some of the wildest wedding traditions from around the world.

Imagine a wedding tradition where joy is measured not by laughter but by tears. In certain regions of China, brides from the Tujia ethnic group begin crying a full month before their big day. For one hour each evening, the bride weeps to express happiness and gratitude. Ten days in, her mother joins her, and by the final week, her grandmother, sisters, aunts, and cousins take part as well. The sound is said to resemble a "symphony of tears," as locals call it. It may seem dramatic to outsiders, but for the Tujia, this ritual is believed to wash away misfortune and welcome joy into the marriage, turning tears into a celebration of family and future.

In some parts of Africa, weddings are not always centered on laughter and dancing. In the Democratic Republic of the Congo, for example, certain traditional ceremonies are described as austere and solemn. The bride and groom are expected to remain serious from start to finish, not even a hint of a smile allowed. The reasoning is that marriage is a sacred commitment, too important for outward giggles or casual grins. To an outsider, the sight might look less like a celebration of love and more like the world’s most intense staring contest; for locals, it’s a symbol of respect, devotion, and gravity.

Scotland’s version of pre-wedding "fun" isn’t for the faint of heart. Here, the couple’s closest friends gather before the ceremony to stage the blackening, a messy and mischievous ritual meant to test the pair’s endurance. The bride and groom are chased, caught, and covered in a vile mix of sticky leftovers, spoiled milk, fish guts, flour, and rotten eggs. Once properly coated, they’re paraded through town for everyone to admire. It’s smelly, chaotic, and a little cruel, but there’s meaning behind the madness: if two people can handle such public embarrassment together, they can probably handle anything marriage throws their way.

Would you let your new spouse kiss every guest on your wedding day? No, it’s not the plot of some surreal romantic comedy. As it happens, in Sweden it’s a lighthearted wedding tradition! Whenever the bride or groom leaves the room, the guests line up to give a kiss to the one who stays behind. It may sound a little too wild to some, but in Sweden it’s generally seen as a playful and harmless way to celebrate the newlyweds.

In the remote Marquesas Islands of French Polynesia, love takes a surprisingly literal form. At the end of the ceremony, family members may lie down on the ground to form what is sometimes described as a "human carpet." The newlyweds then walk across their relatives’ backs on their way out, a gesture meant to honor the family’s blessing and symbolize unity between both sides. It works as a reminder that marriage rests, quite literally, on the support of loved ones. The only caution? It’s best if the bride leaves the high heels aside for this one.

France, known for elegant cuisine and candlelit dinners, once had a wedding custom that was far less glamorous. After the celebration ended, family and friends would gather the leftovers and serve them to the newlyweds in a toilet bowl or chamber pot. The concoction, commonly referred to as la soupe, was meant to "restore the couple’s strength" after their long day. In later versions of the tradition, guests substituted the original mixture with chocolate or champagne to make it more "festive." While it sounds more like a prank than a tradition, it symbolized good fortune and fertility. Thankfully, modern French couples now prefer to recover their energy with a croissant and café au lait instead of… whatever that was.

In Maasai culture in Kenya and northern Tanzania, blessings sometimes take an unexpected yet heartfelt form. Instead of a long speech or formal ceremony, a father offers his daughter good fortune with a simple gesture: he spits lightly on her head and chest before she leaves to begin her married life. It may sound disgusting, but among the Maasai, it’s a deeply respectful gesture. In a region where water is scarce and every drop is precious, even a small amount of saliva carries powerful symbolism. It represents life, protection, and the hope that the union will be strong and prosperous.

In South Korea, a groom’s path to the altar sometimes comes with one final challenge. Before the ceremony, his friends tie his ankles together, lift his feet, and playfully strike the soles with sticks or dried fish while firing off trivia questions. The custom, commonly known as bal dalli gi (literally "beating the feet"), is less about pain and more about proving the groom’s resilience and quick wit under pressure. The blows are meant to sting just enough to keep him alert, while the laughter from the crowd keeps the mood light. It’s a comical mix of endurance test and friendship ritual.

Among the Yugur (also known as the Yughur) people of northwestern China, love traditionally begins with a symbolic act of archery. In this centuries-old ritual, the groom takes a bow and fires three arrows directly at his bride. Don’t worry, the arrows are deliberately blunted or have their tips removed to ensure safety. Once the arrows have struck her dress, he retrieves them and breaks them in half, symbolizing that their bond can never be broken. All in all, the gesture represents both trust and eternal devotion, showing that true love doesn’t always come in diamond form.

On the misty island of Borneo, love begins with an endurance test worthy of a reality show. According to widely circulated accounts, among the Tidong people, newlyweds spend their honeymoon locked in a small room for three full days and nights—not even bathroom breaks allowed! Family members monitor the couple to ensure the rules are observed. The couple is given just enough food and water to get by, but the challenge is mostly symbolic: a test of patience, trust, and teamwork. If they can face three days in close quarters without escaping (or arguing), legend says their marriage will be long and unbreakable. It’s not exactly a tropical getaway, but it might just be the ultimate test of compatibility!

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Lima 9 Quebec! Discover NATO phonetics and their purpose

While most people have never heard of the NATO phonetic alphabet, they have likely encountered it in use, at least in movies and television. If you can recall a scene where a pilot says something like "Alpha," "Bravo," and "Charlie" over the radio, then you have heard the NATO phonetic alphabet at work. It is a system designed to ensure letters are clearly understood, even over crackly or noisy connections. It's been around since the 1950s, but its roots go back even further. Take a look at some interesting and cool facts about it!

Simply put, a spelling alphabet helps clarify letters and numbers in messages, since many of them sound alike—like B and P, or M and N.

This is especially useful when static or interference affects radio or phone communication. For example, "DH98" would be said as "Delta-Hotel-Niner-Ait" to avoid confusion.

The following is the complete current NATO phonetic alphabet: Alfa, Bravo, Charlie, Delta, Echo, Foxtrot, Golf, Hotel, India, Juliett, Kilo, Lima, Mike, November, Oscar, Papa, Quebec, Romeo, Sierra, Tango, Uniform, Victor, Whiskey, X-ray, Yankee, and Zulu.

Each word starts with the letter that it represents, and the words were selected to be easily understood by speakers of many different languages.

The original International Civil Aviation Organization (ICAO) alphabet, the predecessor to the NATO phonetic alphabet, was officially adopted on November 1, 1951, and became effective for civil aviation on April 1, 1952.

However, issues soon arose. Words like Delta and Extra, or Nectar and Victor, sometimes caused confusion, especially in poor radio conditions.

To be included in the NATO phonetic alphabet, a word had to be a "live," or commonly used, word in English, French, and Spanish—the three working languages of the ICAO, which developed the system before NATO adopted it.

This rule helped ensure that the words were easily recognized and understood across different cultures and languages, improving international communication and reducing confusion.

The ICAO required each word to be easy to pronounce and recognize by speakers of many different languages.

This helped ensure clear communication between pilots and air traffic controllers worldwide, reducing the risk of misunderstandings.

Another criterion for inclusion in the NATO phonetic alphabet was that a word had to be clearly transmissible over the radio and easy to understand.

This helped minimize confusion caused by static, poor signals, or accents, making communication in aviation safer and more reliable.

Each word in the NATO phonetic alphabet had to begin with the letter it represented and be easily recognizable across several major languages, including English, French, and Spanish.

This made the alphabet easier to learn and understand internationally, ensuring consistency and clarity in communication.

Words in the NATO phonetic alphabet had to be free of any offensive or inappropriate meanings in any of the major languages.

This helped ensure that the words could be used safely and respectfully across different cultures and regions without causing misunderstandings or offense.

NATO changed the spelling of "X-ray" to "Xray" early on to make sure it was pronounced as a single word.

The ease of pronunciation goes hand in hand with another crucial aspect: there can be no other meaning interpretations.

Two words in the NATO phonetic alphabet use non-standard English spellings: "Alfa" and "Juliett."

"Alfa" avoids the "ph" to ensure correct pronunciation by non-English speakers. "Juliett" includes a second "t" so French speakers don't mistakenly drop the final sound.