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Using these terms can make you seem less intelligent than you really are


Published on September 4, 2026


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Everyone, even the most articulate of us, has a few words they lean on while speaking. Linguists often call them discourse markers: expressions that organize ideas, soften opinions, invite agreement, or buy time while the brain catches up with the mouth. They are not necessarily mistakes, but when repeated too often, they can become more noticeable than the message itself. Are any of the following 12 part of your everyday repertoire?

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Like

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"It was, like, the best concert ever."

Few words are as closely associated with casual speech as "like". Linguists note that it is not merely an empty filler: it can introduce an example, signal approximation, frame a quotation, or give the speaker a brief moment to organize a thought.

The habit becomes a crutch when it appears so often that listeners start counting it. Used sparingly, "like" can make speech sound natural and flexible. Used every few words, it can blur the point and make even a confident speaker sound hesitant or unprepared.

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Literally

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"I literally froze."

Literally originally meant "in a literal sense," but English speakers have also used it figuratively for emphasis for centuries. Charles Dickens, Mark Twain, and F. Scott Fitzgerald all stretched the word beyond strict factual meaning long before social media turned the practice into a public argument.

Today, it often works as an emotional intensifier rather than a precise description. Saying "I literally froze" may simply mean the experience felt overwhelming. The word is not automatically wrong, but constant use weakens its force and makes dramatic statements sound routine.

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You know

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"It was just... you know... awkward."

Unlike many fillers, "you know" directly involves the listener. It can check whether someone is following, suggest shared knowledge, soften an awkward remark, or help a speaker maintain rapport while searching for the next phrase. In conversation, it often acts as a small request for cooperation.

That usefulness also makes it easy to overuse. When repeated every few seconds, it stops sounding inclusive and begins to resemble a nervous reflex.

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Honestly

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"Honestly, I didn't expect that."

Beginning a sentence with "honestly" does not necessarily imply that everything else was dishonest. Linguists often treat it as a stance marker: a word that signals sincerity, emotional investment, or the introduction of a personal opinion. It prepares listeners for something the speaker considers especially direct.

The irony is that repeated announcements of honesty can create suspicion rather than trust. Used occasionally, the word adds emphasis and intimacy. Used before nearly every opinion, it can sound theatrical, defensive, or strangely unnecessary.

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So

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"So... here's what happened."

Sentence-opening so is now common in interviews, podcasts, meetings, and everyday conversation. It usually does more than fill silence: it signals that an explanation, answer, summary, or conclusion is about to follow. It helps connect what comes next to what has already been discussed.

The problem appears when every response begins the same way. A useful bridge then becomes a visible habit, and listeners may notice the repetition of so more than the explanation itself. Pausing briefly can often make the answer sound cleaner and more deliberate.

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To be fair

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"To be fair, they didn't have much time."

"To be fair" introduces balance, concession, or nuance. Speakers often use it before acknowledging another person’s circumstances, softening criticism, or presenting a competing point of view. That is why the phrase appears so often in debates, reviews, sports commentary, and political discussion.

Its appeal lies in the suggestion of objectivity, but repetition can make that fairness feel automatic rather than thoughtful. When every disagreement begins with the same disclaimer, the phrase loses its diplomatic value and becomes little more than a verbal routine.

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Basically

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"Basically, we ran out of money."

"Basically" promises that a complicated subject is about to be reduced to its essentials. It can be genuinely useful when a speaker needs to summarize a long story, strip away technical detail, or identify the central point.

The usual problem is that many people say "basically" before launching into an explanation that is anything but basic. Used carefully, it clarifies. Used constantly, it becomes a vague shortcut that adds no meaning and may even make the speaker sound less certain about the summary.

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I mean

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"I mean... that's not exactly what I meant."

Few expressions reveal real-time thinking as clearly as I mean. Speakers use it to correct themselves, refine a claim, soften a judgment, or rephrase something that did not come out quite right. It marks the moment when the mind edits a sentence that has already begun to leave the mouth.

That flexibility explains why the phrase is so common, and so easy to repeat unconsciously. Occasional use makes speech sound natural and self-aware. Constant use can make every statement seem provisional and indecisive, as though the speaker is forever revising a thought before fully committing to it.

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Right?

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"That makes sense, right?"

Adding "right?" to the end of a statement turns it into a small request for confirmation. The speaker may be checking comprehension, inviting agreement, or simply making sure the listener remains engaged. It is less a genuine question than a conversational signal that says, "Are you still with me?"

Used occasionally, the tag creates warmth and participation. Attached to nearly every sentence, however, it can undermine authority and make even a strong argument sound uncertain.

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Look

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"Look, here's the problem."

When "look" begins a sentence, it usually has nothing to do with vision. It acts as an attention signal, warning that a correction, explanation, disagreement, or important point is coming. Politicians, lawyers, coaches, and television commentators favor it because it quickly redirects the room.

The word can be effective, but it also carries a slightly forceful tone. Repeated too often, it may sound impatient or controlling, as though every remark requires special attention.

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At the end of the day

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"At the end of the day, results matter."

Once a literal reference to evening, at the end of the day has become one of English’s best-known business clichés. It now usually means "ultimately," "when everything is considered," or "what matters most." Executives, politicians, and sports commentators have helped make it nearly unavoidable.

The phrase is not incorrect, but familiarity has drained it of freshness. Because it often introduces an obvious conclusion, listeners may hear it as padding rather than insight.

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In terms of

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"In terms of cost, it's a great option."

"In terms of" frames the specific angle from which a topic will be discussed: cost, timing, quality, risk, or some other category. It is especially useful in academic, technical, and professional language, where speakers may need to separate several dimensions of the same issue.

Repeating it can make ordinary conversation sound bureaucratic, as though every thought belongs in a report.


Twisting your perception of time

Strange links: What do a fax machine and the US Civil War have in common?


Published on September 4, 2026


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Did you know that Cleopatra, Egypt's most famous queen, lived closer to our time than to the construction of the powerful pyramids of Giza? When we map out different historical events on a timeline, we frequently discover that moments we thought were galaxies apart actually happened at the same time or were separated by far fewer years than we imagined. Join us as we put history into perspective! One thing's for sure: you're in for some surprises.

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Cleopatra and us

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We often tend to associate the marvelous pyramids of Giza with Cleopatra VII. And it's easy to see why, as she's Egypt's most famous Queen. But here's the surprising truth: about 2,500 years separated the construction of the pyramids (2580–2560 BC) from Cleopatra's life (69–30 BC). That means that the Queen of the Nile was roughly 500 years closer to our own time than she was to the pyramid builders!

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The fax machine and the American Civil War

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If you've worked in an office at any point over the past 35 years, chances are you've used or at least seen a fax machine. And while it might seem like a relatively recent invention, the truth is that the first fax machine was invented well before the American Civil War. That's right! In 1843, 18 years before the war broke out, Scottish inventor Alexander Bain created the first electromechanical facsimile machine, the ancestor of the modern fax.

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Harvard University and the Salem trials

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The Salem witch trials are remembered as an infamous event from long ago. These trials took place mainly between 1692 and 1693, decades before the US even existed as a nation. Surprisingly, the prestigious Harvard University had already been founded 56 years earlier! And here's the most impressive part: both events occurred in what is now Massachusetts.

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The Titanic and Oreo

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The sinking of the Titanic happened over a century ago. This tragic event, which captured the world's attention, occurred in 1912, but at the very same time, other events were also happening around the globe. Surprisingly, that same year also saw the debut of one of America’s most beloved cookies: the Oreo!

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Queen Elizabeth II and Marilyn Monroe

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Did you know that the iconic Marilyn Monroe was born in the same year as Queen Elizabeth II? It might seem surprising, since popular imagination links these two women to very different eras. But it's true: Marilyn was born in June 1926, just two months after the future queen, who would go on to rule the UK for 70 years. They actually met once, at the Royal Film Performance held at the Empire Theatre in London on October 29, 1956. Queen Elizabeth II passed away in 2022, 60 years after the actress's death.

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The Pyramids and woolly mammoths

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Pyramids take center stage again in this comparison. You probably link woolly mammoths with the Ice Age in the Northern Hemisphere, right? While that connection is accurate, it may surprise you to learn that some of these massive mammals were still roaming the Earth long after the Egyptian pyramids were built.

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Samurai and the telephone

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The Samurai were a privileged warrior class that inhabited pre-modern Japan, arising around the 12th century. Their influence lasted for centuries, which is why some samurai were still alive when Alexander Graham Bell made the first successful telephone call in 1876. It was precisely in that same year of the 19th century that marked the official abolition of the samurai class in Japan.

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Oxford University and the Aztec Empire

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The Aztecs were a powerful civilization that primarily ruled what is now Mexico between the 14th and 16th centuries. Among its many achievements was the construction of Tenochtitlán, which began around the year 1325. But did you know that Oxford University was already teaching students nearly three centuries before the Aztecs began building their empire? While the exact dates are uncertain, scholars estimate that instruction at Oxford was already underway by 1096!

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Machu Picchu and the Sistine Chapel

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When discussing ancient civilizations, we can’t forget the Incas, whose empire was centered in what is now Peru. The thing is, when the Incas were building the impressive structures of Machu Picchu around 1450, there were just over 30 years left before the incredible Sistine Chapel was completed on the other side of the world. Just three decades separate these two monumental and majestic human creations, built with very different technologies, tools, and techniques.

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The Ottoman Empire and Disney

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The Ottoman Empire was founded around 1299, an amazing seven centuries ago. That's why it feels so incredible that it still existed when Walt Disney was creating his first cartoons. Indeed, Disney released his first animated shorts, the Alice Comedies, in 1923, just a year after the Ottoman Empire was officially dissolved.

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