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Don’t get caught doing these 12 common gestures outside of the U.S.
Published on May 13, 2025
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It is often said that body language transcends borders. And that is quite true to a great extent. But not always. At least not when it comes to the silent gestures that we use to express a myriad of different things. What is perceived as a friendly gesture here might be seen as a very rude insult in other places. So, take a look at the following 12 cases and remember them, just in case!
Thumbs up
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The classic thumbs-up sign represents approval, agreement, or satisfaction within American and European cultures.
But, in many Asian countries, it is seen as a major insult, and it can be offensive to anyone on the receiving end.
Come here
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This simple summoning gesture, done by curling the index finger towards the palm, is well known within the U.S.
However, don't attempt to use this gesture in the Philippines, where it is considered to be one of the most offensive gestures one can make and can result in you being punished with broken fingers or arrested.
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Head shake
Shaking your head up and down is used to say "yes" and shaking it sideways, "no". This is the case in most countries.
But in places like Bulgaria and Greece, these two gestures are reversed, which can be very confusing to anyone visiting for the first time.
Crossed arms
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Crossing the arms over the chest is a quite common gesture without much meaning in most countries.
However, in Finland, this posture is viewed as a huge sign of arrogance. Standing with this posture can get you into a fight or make people dislike you.
V sign
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Primarily to the 1960s, this hand gesture was mostly used to indicate "victory" but, during the Vietnam War and the hippie era, this sign became associated with the concept of "peace", and it is now commonly known as the "peace sign".
OK sign
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The OK sign is a common hand gesture throughout the English-speaking world and is typically used to say that everything is going well.
However, in New Zealand, it is used to call out a lazy person, and in Australia, it’s used to express the number "zero."
Pinky swear
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Within most English-speaking countries, extending your pinky finger is a way to initiate a pinky swear, which means that someone is making a heartfelt and genuine promise.
But, in certain Asian countries, pointing outward with your pinky is considered a rude gesture and is best to be avoided.
Fingers crossed
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Crossing one’s fingers expresses a wish for good luck in the U.S. and most English-speaking countries.
But crossing one’s fingers behind one’s back expresses insincerity while making a promise.
One sign
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In most Western countries, holding up the index finger signifies "number one" or "first place."
However, in Greece, Russia, and the Middle East, holding up the index finger is considered rude and can be interpreted as an insult or even a threat.
Horns gesture
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The "horns" gesture, done by extending the index and pinky finger, is a common hand gesture in the U.S., especially in the heavy metal and rock music scene, meaning "rock on".
But in many countries, like Italy, Portugal, and Brazil, this same gesture can be interpreted as an accusation of infidelity.
L sign
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While holding your extended index and thumb at a 90-degree angle over your forehead is used to say that somebody else is a loser, that is not the case in China, where it symbolizes something else completely: a number eight.
Pinky up
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Raising the pinky finger alone is commonly used to parody a snob attitude. It is a cheeky gesture that is not to be taken seriously, at least in most Western cultures.
In China, however, extending your pinky finger indicates that you think little of the person you're speaking to and is considered quite rude.